Getting What You Want Faster
I was just thinking about something that I really wanted to pass along to you right now, and it may be the most counterintuitive thing you've ever heard when it comes to achieving your biggest dream for yourself right now.
So what I'm going to ask you to do, I ask you to keep an open mind.
If what you've been doing hasn't been working, let's be open to something new. It's going to feel very counterintuitive but,
let it go, surrender.
Whether you have dreams of becoming a millionaire, starting your business, leaving your job, getting out of debt, getting healthier, fitter, stronger, more muscle, whatever your dreams are. Yes, I'm telling you to let it go, to surrender. That is the only way I've ever gotten anything I really wanted in my life was when I was willing to let it go - and I know our head can scream at us, "but Jen, how can I let it go?"
That means I'm not going to get it. I'm not going to achieve it. I'm not gonna move forward to it.
Well, here's a subtle difference I really invite you to consider today, and that is to not let go of the desire of it, but to let go of the need for it.
Let go of the need for it.
When you have a needy energy it is not attracting anything or anyone to you, including money, including dreams, including good energy, including the love of your life. Whatever it is you're searching for, let go of the need for it. Keep the desire, keep the intention, let go of the need.
What does that look like? What's the difference? When you need something, you're becoming dependent on it being in your life, in order to be happy, in order to feel peace, in order to feel relaxed, in order to feel joy, you need this in order to _______.
I'm really encouraging, inviting you to let go of the need. When you remove the need, it will come to you so much swifter and so much easier.
Some of the ways it has shown up in my life is I so desperately wanted to have an ocean view place to live. It was something I really, really wanted and I was working my ass off for and finally I just said, you know what? I'm just going to love where I live right now and wherever I go, I go.
Next thing I know my husband is opening a gym in Victoria. I let him be in charge of finding our apartment. I was not searching, digging, controlling anything, and he didn't even tell me til the day we were moving in. He didn't even really realize it himself, that it was ocean view.
Getting two TV interviews in the span of six months, getting a book offer, these were not things I was striving for, that I felt I needed in my life. These were things I wanted that I thought would be cool and I desired, but I didn't have the neediness and they came into my life near effortlessly.
Something to consider. I love you. I wish you every success and for all your dreams to come true.
Have a great day.