If You're Feeling Lost...
Coming from a recovering control freak, recovering perfectionist, it's possible for things to turn out way better than you thought without controlling how it happens.
If you have a dream of creating a certain income amount or you have a dream of living in a certain location or you have a dream of starting a business or you have a dream of whatever it may be, and you think,
"Okay, logically, I need to now map out every single step. I need to figure out and control how this is all gonna happen."
"Oh, wait a minute, I have no idea how this is all going to happen. This picture is so big in my mind, I have no idea how I'm going to get there. It's probably not going to happen. Why even get started so many times?"
I've seen that time and time again and honestly, it's a natural reaction of the brain. It's a natural pattern that the brain wants to follow.
This is why you always hear the cliche of follow your heart because that vision, that dream, that goal, that you have is meant for you.
Even if your mind does not understand the how, or does not even believe fully that it's possible.
I want you to know that it is.
Those desires, those dreams, no matter how big they are or how monstrous or how far away they may seem, they are meant for you.
You do not need to know how you're going to get there or figure out all the steps along the way. In fact, I prefer that you don't try to figure out all the steps because the universe has something far greater in mind for you than you could ever think of on your own.
All you need to do is keep moving forward with what excites you. Keep making those connections. Keep meeting the people that feel good to meet. Keep taking the actions or the courses or the whatever they are that feel good even if it doesn't make sense in your mind.
As Steve Jobs says, the dots never connect looking forward, they only connect looking backwards, so all we can do is keep moving forward with what feels good and trust that the dots will connect.
I love you. Keep following your heart. Do what excites you and your dreams are going to come true for you.